If I can inspire you to do one thing for yourselves, it would be to chose the wedding that makes the most sense for you. Not everyone is all about the big event and that’s ok! You can still get dressed up, you can still have amazing photos to reminisce over, but do all the things you and your love actually care about. Kayla and Brennan cared about spending the entire day with each other. They helped each other get ready in the morning. He zipped her dress, she tied his tie. They held hands all the way to the courthouse I got to sign the marriage certificate. We stopped for coffee afterwards before meeting their closest family and friends for brunch. Their whole day was concerned with celebrating their love just the way it is, and together. I can’t think of anything more meaningful and inspiring than that.